HOW TO CONTROL YOUR MIND TO WORK FOR YOU

Have you ever wondered why things are not moving in the direction you want? It’s because of the kind of mindset you have, which is yielding you to unsatisfied results. It’s a choice to live in wealth or poverty, failure or success, death or life, depending on what you engulf in your system.
There are instances that we find ourselves in bizarre circumstances which we find it difficult to opt out because we have failed to think deep into which path to take. In our social circles we encounter people who have climbed the ladder of success, not because they are exceptionally intelligent or have a special IQ, but they have a winning mentality.
Are you struggling with your grades? Do you think it’s too late for you in life? Are your peers ahead of you in life?
Don’t worry here are 3 steps to unleash your dreams with your mindset;

•The winning mindset
It’s possible to achieve your set goals with a sure chance of winning, if you have the winning mentality. Someone will ask how? It works because your mental cavity has process the word “winning” in that space ,so you realize that your efforts is catapulted into winning.
However, you can also achieve that if you forgo the lapses you’ve encountered in the past to fulfill what’s ahead.
One fact about the attitude of winning is you don’t stop till you win and its quite challenging because in the cause of it you face some impediment on the way, but your source of inspiration comes from your way of thinking.
The winning mindset has a determined spirit.

•The discipline mindset
Discipline is very important in fulfilling any task, because without it, one can never attain the desired results he /she needs.
Self discipline involves a lot because you tend to invest your time, resources and energy into whatever you wish to accomplish.
An indiscipline mindset is bound to fail because it fails to make sacrifices for the set goals and purpose.
How do you expect to pass your examinations without proper planning and effective studies? You are sometimes compelled to sacrifice your night sleeps in order to come up with good grades.
Promotion at your job doesn’t come cheap, though some are awarded promotion on biases. Having a discipline mindset can lead you to your promotion, because hard work pays.

•The optimistic Mindset
Research has shown that man’s true reflection is based on the thoughts processes, so you should be particular with the intake of things you feed your mind with. Always have a positive mindset, though negative thoughts may conflicts along the line, and just allow positive thoughts to dominate your mind because the more you practice that you would see positive results.

"CHOOSE YOUR FRIEND, DON’T LET YOUR FRIENDS CHOOSE YOU”

It feels good to call someone a friend, buddy, or a companion. Friendship is built within a period of time, just as enemies.
It’s so amazing to see people who have known each other for longer period of time turn into worst enemies based on so many factors.
In our walk of life, we come into contact with all kinds of people, whom we might meet them from diverse places and later tag them as ‘friends’, ‘best friends’ and the rest, depending on the kind of help being offered.
One thing we should try and consider is that, the fact that there is a mutual affiliation which keeps the flavor of friendship amongst you does not connote or qualify him/her as a friend.
The question is what value is he/she adding to your life’ what sort of impact have you benefited from your friend ever since he/she came into your life?
Have these questions ever wondered through your mind before.
The Oxford Dictionary defines ‘friend’ as a person you know well and like, and who is not usually a member of your family’, though its not in debt ,but my grandmother’s definition is so striking which I always go by it. “Someone who shares your vision, objective and goals which is geared towards creating impact in our lives”.
This definition is so deep and help you to take critical steps in choosing your friends.
Here are 4 steps to enable you make wise decisions in making and building friendship ties.

*Know the Person
It is very important to know the person you are mingling with, knowing the family background, the persons interest and passion is also needed which will enable you flow with the person well. This will help you to know the likes and dislikes of the person to ensure a smooth relationship.
“Ever since I met my bestie, time spent, moments shared has helped the friendship and blossom, we hardly fight, a friend disclosed.

*A Good Listener
A friend who gives you the ear and listens to you is worthy to be cherished. In times of problems or hard situations, a friend who gives you that room to share your issues with releases a sort of burden because there is adage which goes like “problem shared is half solved”.
“It’s so heart warming, when I get a gentle tap from my friend saying it’s well after sharing a problem, gives me great pleasure” another friend informed.

*An Advisor
There is nothing as fascinating as having a friend who gives you a good advise when there is a problem, it get’s exciting when that advise yields a good result. One thing an individual should look out for is a friend who is ever ready to give an advice when the need be.
A set of advice plays a major role, because it can cause a great influence in your life. Be mindful and vigilant in the kind of words, we consume in our minds , because it can make and unmake you.

*A positive Influence
There is nothing as beautiful as having a friend who would have a good influence in your life. This helps you go a long way in life because your success ladder will depend on the kind of associate you have come into contact with.

6 WAYS TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS

You wake up from your bed expecting to live in a luxury and well furnished apartment, cruise the latest cars, wear good clothes and eat healthy, forgetting that all these can never be accomplished when you have a goal in life.
The world’s richest man, Bill Gates never built his empire of wealth in just a day, It was built based on dream, goal and a plan.
Its so fascinating how individuals expect to achieve certain target in 6months without first thinking of the outline of the hows ,whats,where, and when to accomplish that.
Goals are very important in our lives because it put you on your toes and serve as a guide. A person without a goal can never live in a purpose driven life, because it’s best to look at what motivates you, your passion and your dream to help identify your set goals.
Join me as I share with you 6 ways of achieving your set goals;

• Have a dream

A dream is very important in achieving your goals because it gives a detailed outline of what you want to do. A dream is simply a wish of things you want to accomplish, that state of process leads you to the dream,until you don’t have something in mind it that dream withers. Having a dream set you on the cause which enables you to arrive at a juncture of knowing what you want .There is more after having a foresight.



• Set Goals

After having that wonderful dream, you set up the goals. Setting the goals is the pacesetter of accomplishing it. It is the first step in turning the invisible to visible .You could set it daily, monthly and long term goals which will enable you to know what you are about.It is advisable to write it boldly write them in a clear,concise one which will serve as a reminder in fulfilling it. “As soon as you enter my room,my goals in life is written and pasted on my wall and anytime I pick a glance at it, I am always alert “a friend disclosed.



• Plan

A goal without a plan is a wish,planning it gives you an outline of how the goals can be accomplished. A well planned goal helps you to achieve your set target and gives measures or tactics to achieve that goal.



• Take Action

Every step you take in fulfilling your goal is an action. In this step you go the extra mile and making it possible to come out with the required desire. Taking action involves determination and discipline to go with. We take action to win.



• Focus

Whilst you’ve taken action, you need focus to complete your journey, since there will be hurdle along the way. It’s very important to give your full attention ,living behind external factors which will thwart you from completing your task.
Focusing helps you to achieve a satisfactory result.



• Celebrate

There is nothing as exciting than achieving a goal set to you by your boss or your teacher. It brings joy and happiness into your heart, because not only will you be celebrated but you will be celebrated with a reward, promotion or fulfillment.
People with goals succeed because they know where they are going.

THE TICK TOCK OF A CLOCK

As minute as it is, it has power

Our most valuable commodity
It offers you no luxury of waiting for you

 As events takes place the clock ticks

which turns  seconds into minutes,

Minutes into hours, hours into days

Whilst others  prioritize their tasks; others go about lazy in

What are you using yours for?

Unlike treasured gems , precious metals 

Other prized possessions, time can’t be hoarded;

Collected, earned or bought with hard work, money ,dignity, or  our soul

It slips away whether or not we choose to pack meaning into it.

Use it or lose it  

My hearts beat anytime I hear the clock tick tocks

Thoughts wavering through my mind;

Asking questions like  “can I  achieve my goals  on time”

I nod my head and say “I can”

Which intends   leads to unfulfilled plans.

We while away the finite number of hours in each day, thus

blaming others for our misfortune.

You are what you are because you never made that decision on time,

That idea that kept parading through your mind, yet were never written on time

So someone stole that opportunity that you long deserved.

 Ordinary people think merely of spending time, great   people think of using it.

The bad news is time flies , the good news is you are the pilot.

 So what are you?

Value the tick tock of a clock and you will be a  number one billionaire.

YOU CAN DO IT

I have always believed in your dreams because I know You can Do It.
You can do it, Why? Because I said you can
Never quit because, today’s another Day.
Get back on track and move closer.
Just remember you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action
Perseverance , and facing your fears.
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.
Sometimes the best thing   you can do, is not think ,not wonder, not imagine
Not obsess, just breathe, have faith, that everything will work out the best
Giving up is easy, when your dreams seem far away,
and life is full of obstacles, you face them everyday.
But, no matter what the challenge
Faith will let you through it, so never quit Believing
Just REMEMBER,YOU CAN DO IT. 

Compiled by;Yaa Gyamfua Mensah